Unsolicited Advice Can Alienate & Divide is another aspect.
Most of us are taught from childhood to respect our elders. I am one of those people. I have always valued older people, listened to their experiences, and treated them with respect. Some time ago, I met an elderly man. At first, our conversations were simple and general. He shared his life experiences, religious thoughts, and daily reflections. I listened respectfully because I believe every elder deserves respect. Over time, however, I noticed a shift in our conversations. He began telling me which prayers I should recite, how I should practice my faith, and what I should do in religious matters. While I respected his intentions, a question began to form in my mind: isn’t a person’s relationship with God a personal matter? I value my faith and I pray, but I also believe that worship is not something to be displayed. When, how, and how much a person prays is a private relationship between the individual and God. One day, while I was returning with my brother, something else made ...